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Partner – the choice contains your hidden desires

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When we start a relationship it’s all sunshine and roses, but then there are factors including destructive behaviors that poison love in the long run. Among these attitudes is that, for example, of believing that love is impossible or a chimera. Many feel unable to stay in a relationship. Still others instead of being so perfect that they can’t find a meeting point. So we tend to blame the other person for relationship difficulties.

 

A sentimental relationship is the place where the most hidden desires and the most painful, sometimes unresolved emotional wounds emerge. In a love relationship, forgotten (unconscious) childhood feelings emerge and come to the surface again. Even the toughest people, who pretend they don’t have any, in the end they are the ones who have the most unmet childhood needs. Beautiful is instead being able to bring out your own emotions and personal needs. It serves to realize one’s own psychological wounds by trying to heal them.

Each partner needs to self-observe, to grasp and share personal suffering in an exchange of intimacy and respect with the other person. Often, in fact, we don’t do it, tending to blame our disappointment on our partner From there come the first problems of the couple. This is precisely because something unconscious is touched that our psyche has kept on the back burner and does not want to see or admit. We should try to take the blame, but it’s complicated because you have to pull it from oblivion.

In summary, the healing process of childhood wounds may appear easy and short, but it is not, in fact it is long and hard. So instead of self- healing partners blame each other, when instead the couple would be the ideal place to share suffering, grow together psychologically . It would be essential to redefine our identity between past and present, including emotions. Improving life day after day through a relationship with ourselves and others. We need to start over from lost trust. Let’s start with ourselves, who are the person who should never let us down. Each of us deserves a little happiness!

  • Behind the partner you choose are your most hidden desires (psicoadvisor.com)

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